Skip to content
Don't miss our Back Issue Offer while supplies last! Click here to check it out.
  • Home
    • Who We Are
    • The Voices of Homeschooling Today
    • Blog
    • Print Subscription
    • Digital Subscription
    • Gift Subscription
    • Special Offer
  • Shop
    • Magazine
      • Print
      • Digital
      • Individual Issues
      • Back Issue Sets
      • Gift Subscription
    • Monthly Toolkits
    • Apparel
    • Home Decor
      • Canvas
      • Posters
      • Flags
      • Accessories
    Limited Time Offer
    2024 Back Issues
    Interested?
    You won't regret it!
  • Podcast
  • Log in
  • instagram Instagram
  • Facebook
  • twitter Twitter
  • Pinterest
  • Home
  • About Us
    • Who We Are
    • The Voices of Homeschooling Today
    • Blog
  • Subscribe
    • Print Subscription
    • Digital Subscription
    • Gift Subscription
    • Special Offer
  • Shop
    Magazine
    Print Digital Individual Issues Back Issue Sets Gift Subscription
    Monthly Toolkits
    Apparel
    Home Decor
    Canvas Posters Flags Accessories
    Limited Time Offer
    2024 Back Issues
    Interested?
    You won't regret it!
  • Podcast
account Log in icon-search Search icon-bag-minimalCart

Need Some REAL Refreshment?

Sign up to receive a series of encouraging emails along with some freebies that will really help you remember why you're doing this and who is on your side (God)!

Refresh Me! icon-right-arrow
Need some refreshment?
Access Denied
IMPORTANT! If you’re a store owner, please make sure you have Customer accounts enabled in your Store Admin, as you have customer based locks set up with EasyLockdown app. Enable Customer Accounts
Home / Blog / Making Home More Homey
Jan 23, 2017

Making Home More Homey

by

For years, I've been a messie. In fact, I was a messy housekeeper before I began homeschooling. I tried everything I could to change. I used the "Mount Vernon" method that Sandra Felton writes about, used FlyLady reminders, and listened to my mother-in-law, friends, and strangers. Nothing seemed to work for long. Yet, this month, my husband and I simply changed everything. We began tossing out things that we haven't needed in years, months, and even weeks. He finally admitted those old pants didn't fit, and I acknowledged that my clothes were ugly. With hours of joint effort, we cleaned our bedroom.

Next, we worked on the living room. We kept a few decorations that needed little dusting, moved all the furniture, and threw away much of what we discovered under and behind it. We slowly transformed our house, and now everything we touch is better organized and no longer cluttered. We have a house that feels like home. How was this a life lesson for the kids? Amazingly, there was no unit study, no lecture, and we did not have to explain the value of clean rooms. When the kids woke up and saw our clean bedroom (we started very early and finished the bedroom by the time they got out of bed), they went to clean their bedrooms. My daughter's room has no clutter. My sons' room is neat, and while they kept most of their toys, they worked out a deal that is both humorous and functional. Since my younger son prefers yard work and always has extra cash, he decided to do the outside chores and pay his brother to do his side of the bedroom. I thought about all the reasons this might not be a good idea, but I chose to let them try it. It has worked excellently. The arguments and accusations related to cleaning their room are gone, and the room is always neat. They found a solution none of us had considered, and it works. Are we sure we made the right choice with the boys? We hope so. However, I know I followed my husband's lead, and my house is clean. I allowed my children to find a workable solution, and they did. My children now see the value of a clean house, and they pick up their own messes without argument. Home is more comfortable and inviting, and our family is drawing closer because of the changes. In fact, since there was nothing urgent to do at home today, we headed to the park for a tennis game. Homeschooling has been a wonderful adventure, and other family members who at first opposed the idea accept it now. Some have stopped murmuring about it while others are planning to explore it for themselves in the future. How much better they will view our example when they see our lovely, inviting home and our children happily doing their part to keep it that way. I certainly intend to test that theory, and I encourage you to move in that direction for your home. Homeschooling is a journey, and this part of the trip has been quite an adventure! By Stephanie Orsini Stephanie Orsini is a freelance writer who has homeschooled for ten years. She works with the nursery and scouting ministries at church, but her favorite role is as helpmate to Rodolfo and mother to Noemi, Javier and Luis. Contact her at www.stephanieorsini.com —Originally published in the Homeschooling Helper e-newsletter, December 2009
Share Share on Facebook twitter Tweet Tweet on Twitter Pin it Pin on Pinterest

icon-left-arrow Back to Blog

You may also like View all

Book Review: Frog's Rainy-Day Story and Other Fables
Mar 31, 2025
Book Review: Frog's Rainy-Day Story and Other Fables
Awesome Facts About Space for Kids
Jan 25, 2025
Awesome Facts About Space for Kids
A Review of Raising Disciples from NavPress
Oct 11, 2024
A Review of Raising Disciples from NavPress
Invalid password
Enter

Limited Time Special Offer

Subscribe today to our Premium Print Subscriber and get all four of the 2024 back issues for HALF OFF (save $30) plus free shipping! You will be greatly encouraged!

Get the Deal

We'd Like to Take You on a Retreat

Sign up to receive a series of encouraging emails along with some freebies that will really help you remember why you’re doing this and who is on your side (God)!

Refresh Me!

1 Thessalonians 5:24

"The one who calls you is faithful, and He will do it." – NIV

Inbox me!

Get encouragement & practical help delivered right to your inbox!

Customer Support

  • SUBSCRIBER LOGIN
  • PRIVACY POLICY
  • CONTACT US
  • FAQ
  • ORDER STATUS
  • ADVERTISE WITH US
  • instagram Instagram
  • Facebook
  • twitter Twitter
  • Pinterest
© 2025 Homeschooling Today | Paradigm Press, LLC | All Rights Reserved Powered by Shopify
Making Home More Homey